Ideal woman

I frequently get questioned about my ideal type of lady, whether I have preferences regarding her etnicity, hair colour or other physical details while I am rarely heard on her character type.
I dissociate from the legend of a single soul-mate presence as I firmly believe that there are probably multiple matches for each one of us in the whole planet, but I embrace the idea of sharing the time of my existence with a ”soul-mate” that takes place in a monogamous relationship leading to an everlasting love.

Although oriented to seek for an inner beauty, I still can’t detach myself from the terrestrial law of physical attraction, which is, simply fatal. It just happens to be that outer beauty lies only in the eye of the beholder and no matter how much you can share in the inside, nothing can begin without an intense whirl of physical passion.
Therefore, first things first, my one and only requirement is that she should be slim, thin, slender or athletic but never overweight. She is sportive and respectful towards her body, at least trying to eat healthy food and exercising regularly.
On a different note but still in the same aesthetics field, she would need to feel comfortable wearing a traditional or night dress for a night out with the President as well as some dusty street-market clothes for a night out with the gipsies. I dislike high heels and low class bitchy outfits, thinking of being sexy but ending up giving me the idea of being just a poor parking slut from the valley. A big plus if she still follows the trend of ’90 style. Ideally in a casual wear with classic levis 501 unisex button, tshirt and tennis shoes.

I obviously couldnt be together with females who can just think about fashion, career, owning stuff and have shallow conversations. I would be looking for a woman who is a free thinker, open minded, free from any kind of social constrictions or fake morals and of course a woman who does not believe in any god but in herself and her rational judgment based on personal experience, scientific, philosophical and biological knowledge.

For the sake of current society wellness and the couple well being, I strictly do not want someone who wants to have kids. I love my freedom and a kid would be a burden. I dislike loud noises, children screaming and endless consumerism out of a pure selfish and meaningless third world reproductive desire. I however, if financially completely stable, once settled in a totally grounded relationship and completed goals with my partner, could think of the possibility of adopting a kid who has already gone through the infant annoying stage, who is in desperate need of a family. That is I think the farthest i could go and nothing can ever change my mind.

I predilige the hot weather and living in a warm places, consequently she should be not afraid or fussy for sweating. I dislike air conditioners as it is be pointless to live in a hot place and set the AC to freezing temperatures. She should like spending time under the sun as well. On the other hand, I wouldn’t exclude spending several months in opposite and extreme climates such as mountains, since I love skiing…

This issue is extremely important: time is the most valuable thing in the world and It’s all about if someone can offer me her time. I need to spend most of the day together with my partner, working on different and many kind of activities like arts, music, reading, doing sports, playing and spending romantic moments while observing natural shows.
Nevertheless It’s not necessary to make it become a daily obsession, I believe that in a day I would ideally need to have some physical activity (any sport is fine), and as well mental interaction (could be reading a book, an article or watching a film/documentary giving out comments). That’s why I would’t be able to accept a relationship with a wage-slave of 9 to 5. Also, I will never be able to stand a relationship where I can see my other half only during the evening /night after work. I strongly despise employees and the corporate mentality thus it would be excellent to work together in any kind of business line, as long as it remains a self-employment.

I need physical closeness, affection and expression love with public display of affections too, during a romantic quiet walk but as well in the middle of a crowded square: showing in front of everyone that our feelings are sincere and that we have no fear of showing them off in case. Being at times a bit on the two extremes I like talkative and chatty ladies as I can have conversations for hours and hours over every kind of matter, but I can as well enjoy the quietness and a meditative state. Quarreling, discussing, fighting and discriminating over “small” things is part of a communicative and healthy relationship.
I also prefer someone who is jealous, possessive and exclusivist because it makes me feel much more “wanted”. Sharing the good and the bad things of life means not giving up on us in front of the first difficulty, with the strong will of working things out even when tough sacrifice is needed.

She should speak at least another language besides English, unless her English is at a Shakespearian level. (besides, I only watch movies in original language)

Someone who is still dreaming a lot and loves her freedom. Someone who has something to teach me.

It would be splendid and a plus if she is very well educated and comes from a family with fine cultural background and values. I would love to have a second family and her parents would possibly offer moral and economical support if needed. I would definitely go for someone who is still conserving strong human values, who puts love and feelings at the first place in life, who doesn’t want to play with people’s feelings; someone who is really serious in what she does and in what she believes. Devotion is necessary because I still believe in marriage and “family”, and i would fully commit for them until the end of the days; I am not going to let my woman down under any circumstance. Once married, live toghether, die together… all the way.

Romantic, full of passion, of love for herself, for her man and for the nature. Someone who definitely likes undertaking new adventures, making new experiences, reading books, watching movies,

traveling and willing to learn new things. I like to travel but I also would like to settle down for long time in place by the coast, in a relaxing environment, just couple of friends, no crowded parties, nature and nice shores.

She should possess a very dynamic personality, knowing how to be extremely playful and “childish” when it’s time to have fun and being extremely concentrated and serious when the right time comes.

Last but not least, someone who is preferably above 25/28 years old, who has never been married or have kids from previous relationships. Not afraid of crossing an ocean to meet someone she might be interested in.
Said so, I hope I was able to give you a comprehensive introduction of what i am looking for, even if such complicated matter as love and relationships has been discussed for thousands years by many philosophers, sociologist and scientists without reaching any rational or substantiable conclusion. It’s very painful indeed to find balance between what we want, who we might like, who we can love, who we can be attracted to and who we can bare with. Counting that we are constantly evolving throughout the path of life…it looks like finding a good match it’s really like winning at the national lottery…